Why do I stay in a loveless marriage?

Assalamu Alaikum Reader,


You know that quiet ache you feel when your husband walks past you — and you realize you’ve barely spoken, but your entire day revolved around keeping things together?


You make meals. You manage the kids. You keep the home spinning.

And yet… deep inside, you feel alone.


Not because there’s no lovebut because love has become maintenance, not nourishment.


You tell yourself, “He helps. He provides. He’s not a bad man.”

But it doesn’t feel like partnership.

It feels like functioning.

Surviving.

Like being a single mother in a two-parent home.


And the part of you that still believes in us starts to fade.

You begin waiting to be cared for before you care.

You start needing proof before softness.


And that’s when the cycle begins — resentment, distance, silence.

You’re not just missing love.

You’re missing replenishment.


The kind that comes from being seen by Allah first,

before being seen by your husband.


Because here’s the truth most women forget:

You don’t fall out of love because the spark dies.

You fall out of love because you lose sight of the purpose behind the love.


And when you reconnect to that purpose —

marriage stops feeling like a test you keep failing,

and starts feeling like a space where Allah is still teaching you how to love through Him.


That’s what we’ll explore inside The Reassured Wife Reset: Marriage Shift in 5 Days Challenge.


In 5 days, you’ll learn how to:

🌷 Reconnect to Allah’s rahmah when marriage feels emotionally dry.

🌷 Stop feeling like a single mom in a two-parent home.

🌷 Experience love again — not as fantasy, but as faith in motion.


Your marriage isn’t meant to be survival.

It’s meant to be sacred work.


➡️ Join “The Reassured Wife Reset” here

Let’s rebuild your heart — not from pain, but from presence.


With warmth and du’as,

Insiya



Insiyaar.com


Insiya Abdur Raheem

I am Insiya, a Mental Health Coach, wife, and mom of fourlittle ones, passionate about helping Muslim women live with authenticity and purpose. Born in the Middle East, raised in India, and now living in Canada, I bring a unique perspective shaped by diverse cultures and nearly a decade of experience in counseling, training, and psychological support. With a master’s in Psychology, my work centers on helping women connect with their true values, set healthy boundaries, and nurture their relationships as acts of worship. Through mindset shifts, inner work, and faith-aligned actions, I invite you to join me in creating a life filled with Barakah, connection, and growth. Connect with me below!