Assalamu Alaikum Reader,

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Lately, I’ve been reflecting on what it truly means to move from resentment to rahmah in our marriages. And subhanAllah, a recent realization struck me:

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When you have clarity of thought and emotional grounding about who Allah chose as your husband, you approach him with acceptance instead of constant questioning.

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✨ You stop asking “why me?” and instead start saying “Alhamdulillah for what Allah knows is best for me.”

✨ You work with what you have—bringing humility, contentment, and presence—rather than comparing your situation to someone else’s.

✨ And with this mindset, peace settles in your heart. The overthinking, the overwhelm, the constant tug-of-war within yourself begins to soften.

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When you realize that your husband is actually on your side, then even correcting him, supporting him, and walking alongside him feels different. It no longer feels like wasted effort or dealing with “someone else’s issues.” It feels like the right effort—the effort that builds love, connection, and barakah.

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This is the heart of moving from resentment to rahmah:

letting go of the weight of resistance, and embracing the mercy that Allah has placed between you.

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💌 If you’re reading this and thinking, “But I don’t feel this way in my marriage right now…”—you don’t have to stay stuck there.

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I’d love to help you gain this clarity, ease, and emotional grounding. Book a call with me today, and let’s walk this path together.

👉 Click here to book your call​

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With duas for renewed love and mercy in your home,
Insiya Abdur Raheem
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​Insiyaar.com​

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